Chances are you’re in one of the five stages of love, as revealed today by e Harmony psychologist Dr Linda Papadopoulos.Our study of British couples has identified five distinct stages in a loving relationship, and the symptoms which help you identify which one you’re in.During this stage it’s easy to find your brain fighting your heart.You are still getting to know your date and certainly don’t want to become too committed too fast. Force yourself to be logical during this stage and determine whether your date is someone you see yourself with long-term. If your partner gets on your nerves after a few months, you’re in good company!
This courtship phase is also focused entirely on non-verbal communication.It can be challenging to determine which stage you're in, but each stage of a relationship is an opportunity to explore compatibility and level of commitment.Whether you’re in a new relationship, building a more serious relationship, or in a long-term committed relationship, you should take time to assess where you and your partner are at.Use this as an opportunity to practice patience and compromise. Relationships are about embracing all of your partner – the good, the bad and the strange. During this stage, work and social obligations encroach on your relationship.
You return to “life as usual” with one small addition – your partner.
From the early excitement of the Butterflies stage, to the warm contentment of Stability, our results showed that your love life can affect not just the way you feel, but your ability to work and sleep and you can even experience feelings equivalent to the effects of Class A drugs.